One reader suggests that our man with the prostate/urinating problem wear a magnetic pad (initially designed to help with period pains) in his underwear daily to help relax the muscles, and hopefully to help him "let go" more easily. Another reader, whose husband suffered a similar proble for over 12 months, resolved the problem in under two weeks with Prosta Health, which contains Saw Palmetto extract. Or the problem could stem from a phobia of urinating, suggests another reader. If this is the case, stress and anxiety are the root reactions that need to be tackled. As for herbal or nutritional therapy, try taking twice-daily doses of dandelion extract or 100mg of vitamin B6, which is also supposed to be useful for bedwetting problems.